{"id":10437,"date":"2016-12-30T16:22:32","date_gmt":"2016-12-30T16:22:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/?p=10437"},"modified":"2017-05-09T14:12:33","modified_gmt":"2017-05-09T14:12:33","slug":"how-to-handle-impossible-customer-requests","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/how-to-handle-impossible-customer-requests\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Handle Impossible Customer Requests"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-11239\" src=\"http:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/impossible.jpg\" alt=\"Impossible customer\" width=\"250\" height=\"198\" \/>Customer service is all about treating people well. But what about those times when people make impossible requests, and you feel you have to say &#8220;no&#8221; to a customer? I have a novel way to handle these situations &#8211; by permanently striking the word &#8220;no&#8221; from your vocabulary!<\/p>\n<p>Saying no to customers is part of our natural survival instincts, because we are naturally programmed to defend our turf. But a simple technique makes it easy to make your customers an ally, even when you can&#8217;t do exactly what they want. I call it the &#8216;can-can&#8217;, because it involves focusing on what you can acknowledge and can do for the other person.&#8221; Here are some examples:<\/p>\n<p>Before: That isn&#8217;t my department.<\/p>\n<p>After: I&#8217;m glad you came in. I know exactly the right person to handle this.<\/p>\n<p>Before: You can&#8217;t get in to see the doctor for two weeks.<\/p>\n<p>After: I&#8217;d like to get you in as soon as possible. We do have an opening on Tuesday the week after next, and if you&#8217;d like, I can also let you know if there is a cancellation earlier than that.<\/p>\n<p>Before: We don&#8217;t give refunds.<\/p>\n<p>After: I&#8217;d love to see you to take home something you like. Even though we don&#8217;t take returns, I&#8217;ll be glad to give you a discount on another item.<\/p>\n<p>Even in the most extreme situations, you can use the can-can to change the way people react to you. Let&#8217;s say, for example, you just towed away someone who is illegally parked, and they aren&#8217;t happy about it! Compare these two responses:<\/p>\n<p>Before: &#8220;Sorry, you shouldn&#8217;t have parked there, and you&#8217;ll have to pay a fine.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>After: &#8220;I get frustrated when things like this happen to me, so I know how you feel. If you have a credit card, we can charge a small fee and send you on your way right now.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>In almost any customer situation, you can dramatically change your customer&#8217;s reactions by changing the mechanics of what you say &#8211; which, in turn, will make a real change in your business&#8217;s bottom line.<\/p>\n<p><strong>About the Author<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.pointofcontactgroup.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Rich Gallagher<\/a> is a communications skills expert and seminar leader. He is the author of several books including Great Customer Connections and What to Say to a Porcupine.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Customer service is all about treating people well. But what about those times when people make impossible requests, and you feel you have to say &#8220;no&#8221; to a customer?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":59,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[56],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10437"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/59"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10437"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10437\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11240,"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10437\/revisions\/11240"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10437"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10437"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10437"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}