{"id":9612,"date":"2016-10-28T17:43:13","date_gmt":"2016-10-28T17:43:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/?p=9612"},"modified":"2022-10-05T16:18:14","modified_gmt":"2022-10-05T16:18:14","slug":"4-words-you-should-never-hear-in-customer-service","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/4-words-you-should-never-hear-in-customer-service\/","title":{"rendered":"4 Words You Should Never Hear in Customer Service"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It happens all of the time. A customer makes some kind of special request. It\u2019s not that it is all that special. It\u2019s just not the norm. And, the first response from the employee is, \u201cWe can\u2019t do that.\u201d<\/p>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10143\" src=\"http:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/pastaeat.jpg\" alt=\"Happy customer in restaurant\" width=\"500\" height=\"336\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/pastaeat.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/pastaeat-300x202.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/>\n<p>My wife knows that I love pesto sauce. There is a restaurant in our area that has a delicious meal with pesto. However, their pesto is a creamy pesto sauce. We found out they make regular sauce and just add the cream to it before mixing it into the dish. So, one day my wife asks if they can leave out the cream. Their response, \u201cAbsolutely. Happy to do it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>So, we\u2019ve been ordering lunch from them, probably once or twice a month, for over a year. They have always been accommodating. Until today. When my wife placed the order for the pesto without cream, she heard those ugly four words: \u201cWe can\u2019t do that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>My wife\u2019s response was, \u201cWe order it this way all of the time.\u201d After putting her on hold for several minutes, the employee came back on and said, that they would do it. A happy ending, but still a flawed service experience.<\/p>\n<p>What happened was that this was a fairly new employee. She had been trained to take an order, but not to be flexible and consider accommodating special requests.<\/p>\n<p>What should have happened instead? Other than more training about the menu items, at least train the employee on how to respond when he or she doesn\u2019t know what to do. Don\u2019t just assume the answer is no and tell the customer, \u201cWe can\u2019t do that.\u201d Instead, ask the customer to hold a moment. Ask someone else, in this instance the manager or even the chef, and come back on and say, \u201cHappy to do it. By the way, thanks for your patience. I\u2019m fairly new and still learning.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And, that is for the first time that the request is made. From that point forward, the employee now knows they can make pesto sauce without the cream. She (or he) should never have to put a customer on hold and ask that question again.<\/p>\n<p>The lesson is simple: Teach employees to avoid the dreaded phrase, \u201cWe can\u2019t (or won\u2019t) do that.\u201d And if an employee truly can\u2019t do something, teach him or her how to properly break the news to the customer. There aren\u2019t that many reasons to say \u201cno\u201d to a customer. You can be out of an item. It\u2019s something you don\u2019t do. It can be illegal, and you don\u2019t want to break the law. Or, it can even be an unreasonable request that can\u2019t be met.<\/p>\n<p>Regardless of the reason, there are many things you can say instead of, \u201cWe can\u2019t do that.\u201d Imagine we asked for pesto sauce, with or without the cream, and the restaurant happened to be out of it \u2013 or never even had it on the menu at all. Rather than, \u201cWe can\u2019t or won\u2019t do that,\u201d the employee could say, \u201cWe\u2019re out of pesto sauce. I\u2019m sorry about that, but you may love our marinara or meat sauce. Would you like to try that today?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Now doesn\u2019t that sound a lot better than, \u201cWe can\u2019t do that\u201d?<\/p>\n<p><strong>About the Author<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/hyken.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Shep Hyken<\/a> is the Chief Amazement Officer of Shepard Presentations. As a professional speaker and best-selling author, Shep helps companies develop loyal relationships with their customers and employees.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It happens all of the time. A customer makes some kind of special request. It\u2019s not that it is all that special. It\u2019s just not the norm. And, the first response from the employee is, \u201cWe can\u2019t do that.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2],"tags":[252,50],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9612"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/17"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9612"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9612\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":35487,"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9612\/revisions\/35487"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9612"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9612"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.customerservicemanager.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9612"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}